Other Gear

(1) Women's Long Sleeve Hooded T - This is a must-have. It's lightweight, has pockets and a hood. Never underestimate the hood. bonus: has thumb holes.
Men's option: Men's PrAna Hooded T
(1) Women's Longsleeve BaseLayer - Warm, fits nicely under the hooded T if you are layering.
Mens option: Men's Baselayer Longsleeve
(3) pairs Socks: (2) Darn Tough Socks, (1) Ankle socks - I like to switch it up. Wash 1, wear one, sleep in 1, repeat.
(3) Underwear - Anything you like. Thongs are lightweight but aren't always great for hiking. I'll bring 3 for a 10 day hike and wash them at the campsites. Pictured is 2 GapBody grannies and 1 thong.
(1) PrAna Tank - Only because it's lightweight.
(2) T-Shirts - standard issue. These are both lightweight athletic shirts I got from races over the years. Cotton is bulky so look for something thinner that breathes.
(1) Bathing suit - standard issue. Optional. We like to jump in lakes to cool off but they are frigid so if you're not going to do it, cut this weight. I'm sure a skankier suit would weight less but I'm not that committed.
(1) Shorts - for hot days hiking or for sleeping.
(1) Bra - not shown. Whatever is comfortable or just don't wear one.
(1) Fleece
(1) hat
(1) Spandex or Thermal pants

Jackets - stuffed in a 1L Dry Sack - 1.6lb - Get's it's own bag for easy access while hiking.

(1) Rain Jacket: Outdoor Research Helium Li Jacket - not shown here. Shown and weighed here is a standard REI rain jacket. Full disclosure: this link is the jacket I want - it would bring total jacket bag weight down to 1.2lb.
(1) Down Jacket: Columbia 800 Down Jacket. Any lightweight down jacket with a hood will do. Down is less bulky. This one weighs in under a pound and is warm and durable.

Miscellaneous Gear:

Cooler - for shorter backpacking trips or kayaking
Sleeping Bag Dry Bag
Big and Small Dry Bags
Rope - to hang your food
Sunscreen, sunglasses, towel
Cooking gear , - we like these Sea to Summit ones because they're collapsible and lightweight. They're harder to clean than normal cups/bowls because of the accordions. I'm sure better options exist.
Camp burner - Jon loves the Soto Windmaster because it's quiet
Fuel, camp soap, utensils, spatula, Camp shovel, Wet Wipes, Head Lamp - Just go to your favorite gear shop, not sure brand matters much here
Kayak Gloves

Breakfast:

(3) oatmeal packets,
(2) freeze-dried breakfasts – I like MountainHouse Biscuits and Gravy and Breakfast Hash
(5) instant coffee

Lunch:

(1) loaf of bread or flatbreads,
(2-3) ziplocks with ham/cheese rations for ham/cheese sandwiches,
(2-3) mustard packets for the sandwiches,
(2-3) tuna packets - I like StarKist Tuna Sensations. They have a ton of flavors to keep things interesting. Substitute Peanut butter and jelly if you don’t like tuna.

Dinner for two each night, multiply if you want to do communal meals:

Fajitas: (1) frozen fajita veggie, (1) frozen grilled chicken strips, (1) pack of tortillas, (1) packet fajita seasoning, (1) ziplock of some cheese
Thanksgiving Dinner: (1) pack of stuffing, (1) pack of instant mashed potatoes, (1) pack of brats
Nights 3, 4, 5 bring dehydrated meals for each night - Choose your Favorite. Mountain House Lasagna and Chili Mac with Beef are my favorites.

Snacks: Bring a ton of snacks. Here are some things I like to bring along:

Other Backpacking Gear